Coaching
Procrastination Is Not Laziness
In the summer of 1830, French author Victor Hugo was up against an impossible deadline. Twelve months earlier, Hugo had promised his publisher a new book. But instead of writing, he spent that year distracting himself with other interests and entertaining friends. Frustrated, Hugo’s publisher responded by setting a deadline less than six months away: February 1831. Hugo…
Are You Ready For A Change?
There is a new season coming! Fall officially starts THIS Saturday. I love images of Fall: I love a new season because it is a chance for a FRESH START. Although we associate cleaning with Springtime, I think that ALL the seasons are a perfect time for cleaning or change. Are you ready for a “NEW SEASON?”…
Do You Constantly Feel Guilty?
This is my dog. He has mastered the face of “Hey, you’re not paying attention to me, so I am going to stand by the door so that you have to take me outside.” And you know what? It works every time because I feel guilty. But you don’t have to have a manipulative dog,…
Who Are You?
Do you remember that childhood taunt: “I know you are, but what am I?” It was the ultimate playground comeback, a sassy retort that could stop any argument dead in its tracks. But here’s the thing, while we may have left the playground far behind, that question lingers in our ADULT lives, albeit in a more…
The Secret Weapon Of My Morning Routine
Do you have a morning routine? If you work from home, you might find yourself rolling out of bed two minutes before you have to “log in” to your computer with just enough time to pour yourself a hot cup of coffee. If you work in an office, you are probably racing around trying to…
Maui Fires
We are safe and grateful to be back home. But as you all know, thousands of people were not so lucky. Parts of the island have been devastated. Many people lost their lives, their homes, and their businesses, and still don’t have water, power, or cell service. It is going to be a long road…
No Matter Where You Go, There You Are
In 2009, I moved to “paradise.” I mean who doesn’t want to live on a tropical island where the temperatures are generally between about 75-85 degrees all year round? I was happy to trade in my tailored suits and my crippling high heels for flip-flops and tennis skirts. Our new home had ocean views in almost…
Are You Being Too Hard On Yourself?
Life can be challenging, and sometimes, we may feel overwhelmed by the physical or emotional burdens we carry. Amidst the chaos, we must remember to hold a place where self-compassion can blossom. For me, this is found in my morning meditation, journaling, and on long walks. In one of my meditation practices, I was reminded…
Ready To Get Off The Stress Rollercoaster?
Chronic stress is a killer. Literally and metaphorically. In the short run, it kills joy. In the long run, it kills everything. I know because it was killing my joy and my well-being. When I was suffering from chronic stress and anxiety, I just assumed everyone tolerated daily headaches, muscle tension, overthinking, insomnia, and hyper-vigilance. …
What Habit Would You Like To Change?
Have you ever found yourself locked in an epic battle with your own bad habits? You know, those pesky little rascals that sabotage your productivity, test your willpower, and make you question your sanity? Whether it’s a snooze button addiction, the lure of midnight snacking, or the black hole of social media scrolling, we all…
