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Summertime

SUMMER has arrived! Cue the social media posts of brightly painted toes on a chaise lounge, pool floaties, blended cocktails, backyard BBQs, wedding season, families at Disneyland, couples in front of the Eiffel Tower, beach reads, and kids playing in the surf. Summer is a time for vacation and play. For kids, it might mean summer camp, swimming pools, beach days,…

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Mindfulness with Mark Feuerstein

In 2009, a lot of big things were happening in my life.  I was moving to Maui with my family to work remotely while continuing my role as a television executive for the USA Network. This was eleven years BEFORE the pandemic, and it was unprecedented for people in Hollywood to telecommute, so it was quite…

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Grief

Can we talk about grief? Like an uninvited guest, grief can take residence in the corners of our hearts and wreak havoc on our well-being.  Grief is a natural response to loss, whether it is the passing of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or even the loss of a job. Renowned psychiatrist…

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Do You Believe in Luck?

I hate to admit that I have always been a little superstitious.  I “knock wood” when I share a piece of good news. I don’t walk under ladders.  I always say “Bless you” when someone sneezes.  And I believe in luck. I make wishes on dandelions.  I carried a rabbit’s foot in the third grade. I have had…

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Embrace Your Mistakes

I hate making mistakes… and I have made my share of them.  Cue the negative self-talk.  Perfectionists are prone to this whenever a mistake is made.   But then I was listening to a lecture on how to rewire our brains from negative self-talk, which reminded me of an important lesson.  When we make mistakes, our…

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What’s Keeping You Awake At Night?

During a full moon, I never sleep well… and last night was no exception.  When we don’t get a good night’s sleep, it can make us feel groggy, cranky, and unmotivated.  It can also cause paranoia and send us down a rabbit hole of overthinking.  The reasons why people experience trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or…

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Are You A People-Pleaser?

Are you tired of constantly putting other people’s needs first?  Do you say “yes” when you want to say “no”? If so, you are not alone. I have been a lifetime people-pleaser, but I consider myself a “recovering” people-pleaser now.  People-pleasing has become an epidemic in our society, and there are three primary reasons for its root cause. …

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Reinvention

Change is an inevitable part of life, and we must adapt to it like we do to the changes in weather and seasons. When I retired from the television business six years ago, I spent a year figuring out my next chapter. After I discovered coaching, everything clicked into place. So, in my mid-50s, I embarked on a…